oh how hard it is to find someone to play with in WV :(

For year I have fantasized about having somebody local (WV) to play with. Male or female doesn't really matter to me, I think it would be really fun to have a like-minded person who wants to have as much fun as I do with our bodies and who, ideally, would be willing to take photos of me, maybe let me take photos of them if they're into it. Essentially I *need* a trustworthy, imaginative, playful, and uninhibited friend, someone who likes playing around, with and without the camera, as much as I do.

I've been looking for this person for years now with no success. I do not know, besides participating on a handful websites, what to actively do in order to find somebody like this. If anybody has any ideas, tips, or suggestions as to how I can get closer towards my goal of the perfect play mate, any recommendations on how to search locally, any websites that have proven successful, or anything else you think might help, please please let me know.